alhamdulillah..up to this moment we are still here, having the chance to breathe and enjoy the breeze of the month of barakah, Ramadhan. May Allah grants all the prayers that we made and may HIS love for us last forever. Aameeen.
i'm gonna write about commitment in this post. why commitment? because this is my blog and not yours and thus, i'm free to write anything i want.
the word commitment popped out into my mind as soon as my mak talked about what-should-you-consider-before-getting-married. COMMITMENT is one of the important things that should be considered before choosing someone as your partner. why? because once one is committed with his/her life, insyaAllah he/she can lead or can help his/her spouse to live a good and blessed life.
for example :
1) As a slave to our LORD, Allah, we should obey what is written in the Holy book, Al-Quran, which is to stay away from any kinds of munkar or sins and always do good things or ma'ruf. If one can fulfill this criteria, insyaAllah, his/her life will be blessed.
2) As a follower to our Prophet Muhammad, we should try our best to follow his SUNNAH. Prophet Muhammad was the greatest man on the earth and we have nothing to lose if we take him as our role model. The prophet is reported to have said this in his last sermon :
" I leave behind me two things, the QURAN and my example, the SUNNAH and if you follow these you will never go astray."
we will never go astray if we are committed in following these two treasures.InsyaAllah
3) As a child to our parents or our caretakers, we have to carry out the obligation which is to love, respect and take a good care of them. That's our responsibilities and we are left with no choice except to fulfill it.
4) As a human being, we have the responsibilities to contribute good things to the nation, religion, race and etc.
It's all about COMMITMENT and thus, it plays such a big role in one's life. Don't simply choose a person as your partner based on his/her look (though it's important too to produce cute little babies :p). Think thoroughly and make istikharah. With God's will, the right one will be exposed to you. (^_~)
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