i had a conversation with my abah on our way to KL. It was just the two of us in the car as my mak was not coming along with us. As the time passed and we both got boring looking at the endless road in front of us, i started a conversation which related to how-abah-met-mak and abah's love story.
seriously, i laughed out loud as soon as abah started telling me his love story. I'd never imagined that abah would gone through all the stories that he told me, but yeah, abah was once young too. And i never thought that abah would uttered all those jiwang-sastera words. Hahahahahaa... This was what abah said :
"cinta tu bukan untuk ditangisi tapi untuk dinikmati. Cinta tu bukan datang sehari tapi dipupuk. Kalau orang kata,-aku jatuh cinta bila tengok si dia-, itu bukan cinta tapi rasa. Contoh, cinta ibu bapa pada anak-anak, cinta tu dipupuk sejak dari kecil sebab tu ibu dan bapa ni risau kalau jadi apa-apa pada anak-anak."
i was nodding and grinning at the same time. peeeerrrgggghhhhhh. Abah, you sure had read lots of H.M TUAH ISKANDAR's book. I can't deny the fact that love is supposed to make two persons happy and not drowning in distraught. When people do not place the love towards their spouses in the exact place, then, they might get frustrated sampai terguling-guling when the love that is hoped to last forever ended earlier than their aims.
Below is the hierarchy of love :
1) Love towards GOD -Allah-
2) Love towards the MESSENGER -Rasulullah-
3) Love towards parents
3) Love towards self
4) Love towards others
Therefore, do place the love at its right spot. Peeps, love is nature or in other word, FITRAH. Don't ever deny the existence of love because without love, we will not be here, without love, the world will be full of hatred.
p/s : i went to KL for the SD scholarship interview. I just hope that i managed to get to the final stage and get chosen as one of the scholarship holders. Do pray for me. =)
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