apekah..???

peace be upon u and hi peeps (^_~)

this post is written by me as soon as i completed my reading on MR K's new post which is Saya Suka Lelaki Berfantasized Pasal Badan Saya  . Ya Allah, urut dada jer bila baca post tu. It's so undeniable and this is where the saying "Truth is so damn BITTER" is greatly applied.

I'm a girl and it's alright but it feels so hurt when a guy-man-boy wrote about my species like that although it's all true. It sounds just like those seksi-yang-menyeksasan are whores and indirectly and implicitly hurt my pride as i knew and know that most of the girls are MUSLIMAH. Astaghfirullah. May Allah show the right path to them and to us.

I remembered my conversation with my brother and my cousin when we're waiting for our meals to come. As we sat outside the restaurant with the intention to get some fresh air, two SEXY girls passed by our table.

"Macam mana la orang laki tak tengok. Semua benda nak tunjuk. Kalau nak kata BEST, memang la best, boleh cuci mata free tapi DOSA. Alahai la perempuan.."

I was like...eerrkk...speechless. Abang and Naim were right. And what MR.K wrote was right too. Allah forbids us, women, to show our aurat to those who are not MUHRIM.

Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is All-Aware of what they do.(An-Nur 24:30)

 

And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things), and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) and not to show off their adornment except only that which is apparent (like palms of hands or one eye or both eyes for necessity to see the way, or outer dress like veil, gloves, head-cover, apron, etc.), and to draw their veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms, etc.) and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their sisters in Islam), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of the shame of sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of their adornment. And all of you beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that you may be successful. (An-Nur 24:31)

To be a BAIK person is not that easy. The battle in ourself is the hardest part. Why..? Because to go against the norms is so so so so HARD. It's not easy to change from reading REMAJA which is our favorite magazine ever to SOLUSI which we never thought of reading it. It's not easy to lower our gaze all the time when we are used to enjoy the 'beautiful' sight that Allah created in this world. BUT there's always a way if we have a strong WILL to change to a better person. InsyaAllah.

Asal tak bogel je? sume tengok, sume nak rogol,ade je yang sebok2 nak sentuh, dok follow lagi, time2 tuh jugak die fantasize.. kan lagi bertambah confident camtuh sebab terbukti laki betul2 minat.. nih takat laki renung je, mane nak tau, tah2 dok hina kate pompuan tak malu lah, muka huduh nak seksi2, nak termuntah la, menyampah ke, takde duet sume baju ketat2 n tak cukup kaen ke, makbapak tak ajar ke, nanti ade kes rogol, laki jugak yang salah.. betul tak? dari diri sendiri lak, ternampaklah sume kelemahan yang ade, kurap ke, kulit tak licin ke, berjerawat ke, ketiak berbau ke, ade selulit ke, lemak terkumpul ke.. pelik tol pompuan nih.. tak nak rase spesel langsung depan suami padahal nanti suami tuh la yang akan bawak die masuk ke syurga.. ke ko nih tak percaya syurga neraka? hurm.. payah jugak kalo sampai tahap camtuh.. semoga diberi hidayah Allah s.w.t.. neway, ramai laki berpendapat, yang seksi2 nih nak wat maen2 je, nanti nak kawen, nak cari yang baek2 and menutup aurat.. tak nak anak nanti jadi anak yang tak solehah.. so, sampai bile ye ko nak seksi2? sampai hancur hidup sendiri? smpai ke tua tak kawen2? bile dah tua, nak seksi2 lagi? nasihat je nih.. kalau saya salah, delete je lah komen ni.. if u r open minded, then, open ur mind to see what actually the msgs I've expressed..

July 4, 2011 8:36 AM

this is one of the comments that MR.K received about his latest post. I was attracted by this sentence:

"ramai laki berpendapat, yang seksi2 nih nak wat maen2 je, nanti nak kawen, nak cari yang baek2 and menutup aurat.. tak nak anak nanti jadi anak yang tak solehah.."


ooohhhhoooo brothers..! i'm so against that sentence. You guys are so MEAN.. Why do you guys take these girls for granted..?? NAK BUAT MAIN-MAIN JER..?? Do you think those girls toys ke..?? Boleh pulak tu, kalau nak kawin NAK CARI YANG BAIK-BAIK SEBAB TAK NAK ANAK JADI TAK SOLEHAH.. APEKAH..??? APE ni..??? it sounds like you guys have no sense of RESPONSIBILITY.. 


ni pakcik-pakcik sekalian, YOU guys should give some thoughts to what i'm gonna write here.
Do you guys think you deserve someone as good as NUR AMINA if you guys are nothing more than BOTAK..? Do you think you can have a wife who is a good cook if you are not titled to be an IMAM for her and for your family..? Do you think Allah will give you that 'solehah' girl as you wish when you had been flirting with another girls before you get married..?? hheeiiiii.. BUKAK HATI..BUKAK MATA laa...


A good man is meant to be with a good woman and vise versa. Daripada you guys flirt dengan diorang and then dump them because you think you are way mUCH better than them LEBIH BAIK you guys bimbing diorang dan diri sendiri ke arah yang lebih baik.. kan elok macam tu..? 


THINK.. =)